Profile User Image

Kerry Widener

@kerry_widener

Newcomer

I’m Glad My Mom Died was really tough to get through. Thinking of everything she had to go through just broke my heart. The way that she was abused and not protected, made me absolutely furious on her behalf. Abuse from her mother, producers, society, the industry. It was just so awful. I know, you’re wondering why you should even read this. For me, I wanted to understand what happened behind the scenes in her own words. I want her to know that she is seen, heard, and understood. And as far as memoirs go, I think that it was told really well. There are 320 pages full of short but powerful chapters. Other topics she addresses: her Sam & Cat co-star Arianna Grande, walking away from acting, behind-the-scenes of the industry, Miranda Cosgrove, and more. This was an incredibly tough read, but was worth it. Trigger Warnings! I do think that there are so many aspects of this book that can be extremely triggering for people. Eating disorders, alcohol abuse, mental abuse. While I don’t think that any of this is glamorized in any way, the detail in which this is described could be triggering for some. I’m Glad My Mom Died gets five stars from me. For the way she tells her story with such honesty, for her ability to inject humor into such a heartbreaking story, and for the fact that I wanted to give her all the hugs when I finished the book.

I'm Glad My Mom Died imageI'm Glad My Mom Died image

I'm Glad My Mom Died

Books | Jennette McCurdy

The series, which Ryan Murphy and Ian Brennan co-created, covers a variety of topics. One that stands out is how appearances can be deceiving, as demonstrated by the fact that Dahmer, a good-looking man, receives a free pass from the authorities and hardly faces any charges for his murders. The story, which is primarily recounted from the viewpoint of Dahmer’s victims, describes how the justice system’s inadequacies and police inefficiency allowed the serial killer to continue his murderous streak for several years. In addition to seeing the police’s incompetence that allowed the mass murderer to continue his decade long killing spree, the show also showcases a glimpse of how Jeffrey frequently abused his white privilege because the law is sympathetic towards him when he is accused of certain offenses. Most serial killers experience a difficult childhood, and the suppressed frustration and rage eventually surface through their crimes. This is also evident in the show’s story of Jeff. The show highlights the neglect he received from both of his parents while he was growing up. The dysfunctional relationship between Jeff’s mother and father is marked by constant disputes and confrontations, and to make things worse, neither one of them makes any attempt to keep this hidden from Jeff. Instead, they simply neglect him. His father was always there to help him when he messed up, but he wasn’t emotionally present with him. We see how he tries to talk to his father about his fantasies, but despite sharing the same fantasies as Jeff, his father avoids the subject. Despite Joyce Flint’s best efforts, sources claim that she became prey to excessive medications, which caused a rupture in her marriage. Up to 26 tablets were consumed by Jeff’s mother daily when she was pregnant with Jeff. The show demonstrates how Jeff’s transformation into a serial killer was significantly influenced by his environment. It is also commendable to see that they did not overlook showcasing his formative years, which is vital for molding a person’s personality. The show’s creators are clever because they resist simply attributing his actions to genetic factors and they refuse to opt for the simple solution. Although biology is unquestionably vital, the environment is also essential, and they seem to realize this and make their case convincingly. In Dahmer, we undergo a psychological and emotional journey. Although we can’t help but feel disgusted and furious with Jeff, we can also sympathize with him and feel sorry for him. Although Jeff and Lionel share fundamental characteristics—like DNA, fantasies, and passions – they grow into adults who are drastically different people. The show depicts Jeff’s transformation into the person he ends up being intricately, earning our sympathy. Grief in particular is expertly dissected. It’s impossible not to be in admiration of its absolute brilliance; it’s as if a psychologist helped them build this show. The relationships between even the smallest things and their underlying reasons are beyond remarkable. Dahmer poses difficult philosophical questions and brings up significant ethical issues for us to think about. It provides us with two sides to many arguments and gives us the opportunity to pick the side we think is justified, which is fantastic. It encourages people to think for themselves rather than handing straightforward answers or declaring something as right or wrong on a silver platter. The show’s setting is aesthetically appealing and perfectly complements the storyline. The mood of Jeff’s flat is dark and gloomy and nearly seems to reflect his personality. The fact that his house is in a remote neighborhood only adds to the chilly storyline. The gay clubs Jeff frequently visits, the butcher shops he works in, and his childhood home all contribute to the dark plot and heighten the underlying chaos. The plot moves ahead at an ideal speed, gradually disclosing information that will possibly be revealed in the upcoming chapters. Although the show switches between different timelines, it does so in a way that doesn’t feel strange or confusing; in fact, it enhances the charm of the show. The actors are all excellent here and in particular Evan Peters who truly showcases every quality required in a serial killer. He portrays a chilly exterior while also being convincing; he is vicious and odd but still manages to win our sympathy; he is repulsive but also attractive. He seems to portray the polar opposite of everything he is, as if he were able to play both sides of a coin – and he does so effortlessly. Jeff’s father, Lionel, doesn’t just play the character; he truly owns it. He effectively portrays every necessary emotion and catches every subtlety. Without a doubt, Jeff’s father earns our respect and our sympathies with his fine performance. Ultimately though, Dahmer is a well written and thought provoking crime drama and certainly one of Netflix’s best originals this year. It’s also well worth a watch.

Dahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story imageDahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story image

Dahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story

Shows

Even though the story leads with its image of romance, it’s also about the lifelong prevalence of grief and loss that accompanies our existences. When things get hard, having a support system of one’s family and friends in check is the one cushion that helps soften the blow even though loneliness can be too overwheleming sometimes, regardless of whether you’re standing in a room full of people or not. Grief is all-consuming and From Scratch captures its painful actuality without minimising it. The last two episodes of the series pack in some powerful performances, especially from Saldana’s Amy. Watching the connection and bond with her family grow over the timeline is a delightful treat. It is indeed a heartfelt memoir that comes to life, spilling all the truths about how not only food brings people together but also that family building has to do a lot more with our choices than fate. With the finale coming a full circle, the story is guaranteed to bring a smile on the faces of those who especially love to unpack and dig into family dramas.

From Scratch imageFrom Scratch image

From Scratch

Shows | Drama

A deeply felt tale about fake marriage! "The nice part of Purple Hearts is that it moves away from the cheesiness of other romance films. Instead, it brings some real-life issues and blends them into the neat little story that Purple Hearts tells its audience in just over two hours. If the film could be compared to anything, it would be A Star Is Born. Like the 2018 film, Purple Hearts has happiness, sadness, and a song for every occasion. Whilst Purple Hearts may not have the same emotional impact, it is still very heartfelt, and it’s hard not to grow attached to the characters during the course of the film."

Purple Hearts imagePurple Hearts image

Purple Hearts

Movies | Romance

Funny comedy show! Has me laughing in every episode!

New Girl imageNew Girl image

New Girl

Shows | Comedy

Very good! If you like psychological stuff you'll love this!

The Watcher imageThe Watcher image

The Watcher

Shows | Drama

You're following all of our Featured Likewisers already!

Scroll to top