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A New York Times bestseller. In the tradition of Speak, this extraordinary debut novel “is a poignant book that realistically looks at the lasting effects of trauma on love, relationships, and life” (School Library Journal, starred review).Eden was always good at being good. Starting high school did

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Author Amber Smith

Pages 384

Publisher Simon and Schuster

Published Date 2017-03-07

ISBN 1481449362 9781481449366


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acherryqueen shared a tip "Definitely search up TW, but wow what a phenomenal book"

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nataleegrover shared a tip "Absolutely sad but told wonderfully. I think every person should read this book."

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maren_mcguire shared a tip "This is a very hard subject to read about but it’s very intense but accurately portrayed traumatic experiences"

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gabriela_mejia_v shared a tip "It made me cry"

ruby_brown_9184 shared a tip "This book was heart felt and amazing. I can’t wait for the second one to come out!"

alexis_hernandez_7179 shared a tip "Once I started I just couldn’t stop."

alannah_pokletar shared a tip "I fell in love with this book, I think about it everyday. It is very sad though and I cried 3/4 of the book. Enjoy!!"

allison_laud shared a tip "Beautifully heartbreaking for any person who has to live in this reality"

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rachel_senecal shared a tip "Heart wrenching. Even after trauma life goes on and you can grow from it"

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maddaniee shared a tip "survivors of sa need to read this, it helped me heal"

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renee_aguayo shared a tip "A MUST."

ava_abbott_7960 shared a tip "i couldn't put it down, amazing, fiction storytelling of the true affects of SA on a teen. would definitely recommend"

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taryn_mcpherson_6676 shared a tip "My first book of 2023 and it did not disappoint. Absolutely heartbreaking and shines a light on the reality of surviving trauma."

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gabrielle_gazzara shared a tip "Best book I have ever read. The emotions I had while reading this was a Rollercoaster."

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nataliea_11 shared a tip "Amazing highly recommend for people who have under gone trauma. The authors captures and explains it in such a beautiful way."

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niyyah_callaway shared a tip "Absolutely amazing. Tear jerker"

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maggie_marcus shared a tip "Tear jerker that is a must read for all women! Young characters, but relatable life moments!"

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makayla_looney shared a tip "Truly heartbreaking and beautifully written. #tearjerker"

taylorlarson22 shared a tip "so good. takes you through the years of high school through the pov of a young girl who went through something tragic."

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julia_perez_8158 shared a tip "This book was probably a book a could relate to i felt very emotional reading it!! But everything about it was amazingly written."

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destiny_barker_5193 shared a tip "It’s sad and happy and has a good plot i read it about a month ago it’s definitely one of my top tens"

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victoria_378 shared a tip "Absolutely loved this book made me cry#romance #high_school #triggerwarning #rape"

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Jayden.rose1994 shared a tip "Such a great coming to age book and I think that every teen should experience this amazing read"

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sapph_h shared a tip "Seriously the best book I have ever read"

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hailey_sira shared a tip "Does anyone know of some books similar to the way I used to be"

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amber_ell shared a tip "I so close to finishing this book and I’m OBSESSED! Can anyone recommend books similar to this one?"

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lileigh_keeley shared a tip "It’s really really good. I absolutely love it, I am. Victim of rape so it can be triggering, but over all it’s amazing"

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